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Shidduchim for Dummies
Firstly, prepare a דבר תורה in case you would like to tell it to the girl’s father. Also, make sure you have the girl’s address,
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Choosing
Saying yes or no to a שידוך is a very sensitive topic. Every case is different, and it’s hard to give universal rules. It is
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Where To Go
The first date usually takes place at a lounge. If you’re located in Brooklyn, the Brooklyn Marriott is a very popular option. As you enter,
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Conversation
Imagine a new בחור in ישיבה sits down next to you during lunch. You ask “What is your name? Where are you from?” Would you
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Decide Based On Her Feelings
A girl wants to feel that the boy is taking care of her. She wants him to take the lead. If asked “What do you
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Show Care But Not Affection
Part of Shidduchim 101 – Part 6 Obviously, it is inappropriate to show any affection before becoming engaged. However, caring is not affection. Caring means
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Look Put Together And Show Yourself
A boy who is not so put together will probably marry a girl who isn’t particular about looks. Nevertheless, appearances make a difference to every
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Focus On Her
Part of Shidduchim 101 – Part 4 Some boys make the mistake of focusing conversation on showing themself off. The boy talks about his מעלות,
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Holding Open The Car Door
Part of Shidduchim 101 – Part 3 A girl wants to feel taken care of by her future husband. When a boy holds open the
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Explain Your Actions
Part of Shidduchim 101 – Part 2 A girl who is on a date is very nervous. Everything the boy does is over-interpreted. Therefore, it
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Length of a Date
Part of Shidduchim 101 – Part 1 The point of a date is to get a better understanding of who the prospective match is. The