Shidduchim for Dummies
Firstly, prepare a דבר תורה in case you would like to tell it to the girl’s father. Also, make sure you have the girl’s address,
Choosing
Saying yes or no to a שידוך is a very sensitive topic. Every case is different, and it’s hard to give universal rules. It is
Where To Go
The first date usually takes place at a lounge. If you’re located in Brooklyn, the Brooklyn Marriott is a very popular option. As you enter,
Conversation
Imagine a new בחור in ישיבה sits down next to you during lunch. You ask “What is your name? Where are you from?” Would you
Decide Based On Her Feelings
A girl wants to feel that the boy is taking care of her. She wants him to take the lead. If asked “What do you
Show Care But Not Affection
Part of Shidduchim 101 – Part 6 Obviously, it is inappropriate to show any affection before becoming engaged. However, caring is not affection. Caring means
Look Put Together And Show Yourself
A boy who is not so put together will probably marry a girl who isn’t particular about looks. Nevertheless, appearances make a difference to every
Focus On Her
Part of Shidduchim 101 – Part 4 Some boys make the mistake of focusing conversation on showing themself off. The boy talks about his מעלות,
Holding Open The Car Door
Part of Shidduchim 101 – Part 3 A girl wants to feel taken care of by her future husband. When a boy holds open the
Explain Your Actions
Part of Shidduchim 101 – Part 2 A girl who is on a date is very nervous. Everything the boy does is over-interpreted. Therefore, it
Length of a Date
Part of Shidduchim 101 – Part 1 The point of a date is to get a better understanding of who the prospective match is. The